Aristotle
said, “Bashfulness is an ornament to youth”, but he
would have thought twice had he encounterED Muthu.
Always
short sleeved, with his shirt tucked in, he was a tall lanky lad, quiet and
smiling.His notes in the mornings were always neatly written even when I
reached early for rounds.
Surgeons
especially the ones in training usually want to be in theater to scrub with us;
and do as much “ cutting “ as possible. He was different. When there was work
to do in the wards, Muthu was with the patients, comforting the ones with pain,
or talking with the families of patients. I do not ever recall his wanting to push
his way during surgery; but if he differed in opinion as to the treatment, he
always gently made his opinion clear. When he was scrubbed in theater, I was
sure that all patients in wards and out patients had been well cared for.
As time
went on, we needed more surgical help in the department. When the less
experienced surgeons requested more pay, he declined further hikes in pay, saying
he was getting enough and wished for no more pay!
He qualified in FIAGES examination thus specializing in laparoscopy; and helped with numerous live workshops in Global Hospital, Chennai and in other states.
2 months
ago he quietly mentioned that he wanted to be relieved from duty on 11 december;
he explained that that was the day he joined one year ago. All the kings
horses and all the kings men appealed to him to stay back. It was not for
taking on a much fancier job or a hiked up pay, he was leaving; it was just
that he wanted to work with tribals in the remote rural hospitals. He had desired for experience in advanced laparoscopy and now was able to take
it to the tribal communities................... What an idea ji !
He even
vacated his room on the exact day without being asked to do so and shifted to a lodge to make room for his
successor. At his farewell, there was not a single doctor or nurse or administrator
who did not feel the loss.
We
presently live in an environment where basic values such as kindness and
compassion are not often given the importance they are due. Self glorification
and arrogance are often seen in abundance and considered the order of the day
to be popular. The present era has witnessed law suits for trivial reasons on
doctors not to mention the mindless
murder of an obstetrician yesterday. Here was a young man who put others before
himself, who loved his doctoring, who treated others as he would have liked to
be treated.
He will
always be an unforgettable character for the right reasons. He made the place
richer by his presence and association.
These kind of character are all Placed by the Almighty God just like Mother teresa.
ReplyDeleteFenn Samson
No wonder I was so moved by Dr. Muthu's character, though I didn't observe him through Dr. John's eyes. It was his other, may be I can term them 'non-medical qualities' that made me halt and observe and exclaim 'noble man'!!
ReplyDeleteVenkata Ramanan D
Really moving
ReplyDeleteVery touching article-We should all pray for him
ReplyDeletethat our Lod Bless all his efforts in the years to come,with good health and cheer.
Really touching it is a gift of God,s creation,there are many who does't bother about others feeling in working place or outside, May the Lord God keep him healthy and serve for the needy.
ReplyDeleteGOD IS GREAT THIS ARTICLE BY SIR IS SO GREAT FEELING All the Best Dr.Muthu Sir.
From Stephen D.W. and MRD team Bangalore BGSGH.
Wishing him all the best...through out in his comin venture may he teach our materialistic world to show compassion and love
ReplyDeleteMay god be with him.I wish him all success and good health........take care sir.
ReplyDeleteDr.sandeep
John, very eloquent and lovely ode to an extraordinary person. What I found most endearing about Muthu was his humility and the desire to serve the rural folks.
ReplyDeleteMuthu - wishing you Godspeed in everything! God Bless.
Krish