Aristotle
said, “Bashfulness is an ornament to youth”, but he
would have thought twice had he encounterED Muthu.
Muthu Raman came a year ago to Global Hospital , Chennai and said he wanted to work with
me . He qualified in surgery about 8 years ago and spent some time in Kerala ;
I remember asking him why with me….. his reply was kinda vague except that he
wanted to stay for a year and have exposure to basic and advanced laparoscopy.
Anyway we needed a junior surgeon in the unit and he was qualified for the job.
Always
short sleeved, with his shirt tucked in, he was a tall lanky lad, quiet and
smiling.His notes in the mornings were always neatly written even when I
reached early for rounds.
A few days
after he joined, I asked him to write up a chapter on prevention of obesity for
the public; he wanted to take a day or so. 2 days passed by and he gave me a
paper. I was astounded by the clarity of his thoughts and the richness of his
English. This was obviously of excellent schooling; that is how I learnt he
studied in Monford. I had come to respect him and his English.
Surgeons
especially the ones in training usually want to be in theater to scrub with us;
and do as much “ cutting “ as possible. He was different. When there was work
to do in the wards, Muthu was with the patients, comforting the ones with pain,
or talking with the families of patients. I do not ever recall his wanting to push
his way during surgery; but if he differed in opinion as to the treatment, he
always gently made his opinion clear. When he was scrubbed in theater, I was
sure that all patients in wards and out patients had been well cared for.
He differed
from many of the young surgeons in never trying to impress me with his knowledge
or his skill. His love for patients and his care for the family members were legendary.
There were times he spent hours with the families when he could easily have
gone home. Home… that reminds me, he resided in the hospital campus and made
himself available 24 hours a day,365 days. He was always the first one to
arrive in casuality ward when called for major trauma. When there was work to
be done, he did other departmental work whenever the patient needed it.
His
relationship with the xray specialists and anesthetic colleagues was
exceptional. They in turn always obliged him at odd hours; he spent a lot of time in
the departments collecting results to ensure patients spent minimal time in the
hospital. He was popular among other surgical colleagues for lending a hand
whenever needed. The nursing staff and paramedical staff too got along well
with him- he was always smiling and was so soft spoken. I do not recall his
ever being loud or pompous… surgeons generally are!
As time
went on, we needed more surgical help in the department. When the less
experienced surgeons requested more pay, he declined further hikes in pay, saying
he was getting enough and wished for no more pay!
Like Bournville chocolate, he
had “earned” respect from patients and their relatives … they used to stand up
for him whenever they saw him passing by in the corridors.
He qualified in FIAGES examination thus specializing in laparoscopy; and helped with numerous live workshops in Global Hospital, Chennai and in other states.
2 months
ago he quietly mentioned that he wanted to be relieved from duty on 11 december;
he explained that that was the day he joined one year ago. All the kings
horses and all the kings men appealed to him to stay back. It was not for
taking on a much fancier job or a hiked up pay, he was leaving; it was just
that he wanted to work with tribals in the remote rural hospitals. He had desired for experience in advanced laparoscopy and now was able to take
it to the tribal communities................... What an idea ji !
He even
vacated his room on the exact day without being asked to do so and shifted to a lodge to make room for his
successor. At his farewell, there was not a single doctor or nurse or administrator
who did not feel the loss.
We
presently live in an environment where basic values such as kindness and
compassion are not often given the importance they are due. Self glorification
and arrogance are often seen in abundance and considered the order of the day
to be popular. The present era has witnessed law suits for trivial reasons on
doctors not to mention the mindless
murder of an obstetrician yesterday. Here was a young man who put others before
himself, who loved his doctoring, who treated others as he would have liked to
be treated.
He will
always be an unforgettable character for the right reasons. He made the place
richer by his presence and association.
These kind of character are all Placed by the Almighty God just like Mother teresa.
ReplyDeleteFenn Samson
No wonder I was so moved by Dr. Muthu's character, though I didn't observe him through Dr. John's eyes. It was his other, may be I can term them 'non-medical qualities' that made me halt and observe and exclaim 'noble man'!!
ReplyDeleteVenkata Ramanan D
Really moving
ReplyDeleteVery touching article-We should all pray for him
ReplyDeletethat our Lod Bless all his efforts in the years to come,with good health and cheer.
Really touching it is a gift of God,s creation,there are many who does't bother about others feeling in working place or outside, May the Lord God keep him healthy and serve for the needy.
ReplyDeleteGOD IS GREAT THIS ARTICLE BY SIR IS SO GREAT FEELING All the Best Dr.Muthu Sir.
From Stephen D.W. and MRD team Bangalore BGSGH.
Wishing him all the best...through out in his comin venture may he teach our materialistic world to show compassion and love
ReplyDeleteMay god be with him.I wish him all success and good health........take care sir.
ReplyDeleteDr.sandeep
John, very eloquent and lovely ode to an extraordinary person. What I found most endearing about Muthu was his humility and the desire to serve the rural folks.
ReplyDeleteMuthu - wishing you Godspeed in everything! God Bless.
Krish